It seems like, it is very difficult to say what you could have inside your heart, maybe men have to work hard to try to take the feelings and put into their mouthes, that's all a man needs to do, say what he feels, without been afraid, saying the pure truth, in a love relation you never lose, so why to be afraid of telling what you think of her. So say it, gently, softly, that is the ideal. Good Luck. Although this is a very old message...